Sunday, April 3, 2011

living for the special moments

i have a wonderful boyfriend... but we really are opposites in most way. i like to be social; he would rather stay in. i look on the bright side of things; he looks at the negative. i like to say what i'm feeling; he keeps everything inside. i like to hug, hold hands, and kiss; he likes his personal space bubble, etc.

last weekend, those differences caused a little fighting... it was not fun, not fun at all. if you know me at all you know that i hate confrontation and i hardly get mad, but i was mad twice last weekend and confronted N both times. we worked through it and there was not fighting this week.

and then there was friday. friday made up for all the hurt feelings of last weekend. After going out from supper, we came back to my apartment, and we cuddled on the couch. and then he had to go, but that is when the special moment happened. on his way out, he put his hands on my cheeks, looked me in the eyes, said, "Night Sweety," and kissed me. i know it doesn't sound like much, but when your boyfriends doesn't usually say anything to show his feelings, it is big, really big.

it is these special moments that make life worth living.

1 comment:

  1. that is SSOOO wonderful!!

    sometimes i wonder how you two, who are SO opposite, make it work. there's a lot to be said about WORK in a relationship and treasuring who you have. i think you have someone very special my dear, no matter how different you two are. :)

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